Baby Accessories Guru

Okay, here it comes “Kissing Step #2.  It seems to me Dan is trying to put the responsiblility/embarassment on the girl.  Everybody knows that’s the guy’s job, right (sorry women’s lib).   Basically, you just ask her if she wants to kiss.  “If she says anything other than no or I’m not ready it’s a yes.  If she does say no then reply with something like “I didn’t say you could, silly.  It just looked like you were thinking about it”.  This puts all the risk on her and you act like you never asked.  Again, I am putting this into my words.

For all I know Dan is the greatest kisser in the world and his info is great.  It’s just kinda weird having something so natural put down in writing.  Yes, the first kiss for anyone is not natural, a better word would be uncomfortable - but bumbling is part of the fun for me - after it was over of course.  The part that scares me is, he may be right on the money! 

I think we need some really unique baby clothes, like one that says, here it comes, it’s gonna be slobbery!

Unique baby clothes

I have a child we adopted.  We already had 2, but we annted more.  I wasn’t about the to through the cost of artificial insemation process.   The cost is so prohibitive.  So many of the “stars” choose to adopt to adopt kids form nations in a state of porverty.  I have a really hard time with this!  It helped me to find that many of these couples were condisered “not comepent to adopt in this country dues to mental illness or some other reason I don’t know about.   Of course the tabloids won’t tell you all the reasons.  I don’t think they are all crazy.

My husband decided the children in true need were from America.  The number of babies, toddlers and young children available for adoption in America is staggering.  I will never understand going outside our own country when there is such a great need right here in our back yard.  (this is my opinion only, not necessaryil backed up by anyone one originating this blog.  The boy we adopted was 2 at the time.  Today, people say, “he looks just like his father”, and the kids we didn’t adopt are never mentioned.   We make ure he had only the most unique baby clothes we could find to make him stand out among the others.  Of course, they all wanted a new shirt too, they got ont.  I would never change a thing!  I love him as much as our other 3, and he does look like his “Dad”.